Aso for child support it is nothing more than stealth alimony that is why the awards are so high. And he is an amazing father. Ive spent the last day and a half searching the internet for some sort of solution and so far all Ive found is a bunch of policies that make sense on the surface but lack the emotional depth necessary to determine a fair shake for everyone involved. However, his contribution is used strictly for food (do you know how much teenaged boys eat?) There should be no wealth transfer! Absolutely right.. Because after all saying oh I can pay $200 isnt a reasonable request. Its just the opposite. Many states also charge illegal amounts of interest on child support arrears, which buries non-custodial parents in debt. He got her for child support and took full custody of the children said she was going to leave the state which is not true. I just think a lot of these stories are twisted and about anger and bitterness over the dissolved relationship, kids are suffering & going without because of this. Dads with evidence of moms keeping them from seeing thier kids, should definatelty get in trouble. And to not disrespect him. Good luck. I could go on, but at this point it wouldnt change a thing. If fathers are young, they may have no means of providing financial support to the mother or child. Once divorced, unless one parent has sole custody, no child support. Your assumption is that people have children under ideal circumstances where the parents have good paying jobs, a big house with a nice picket fence, and two cars in the driveway and $1,000.00 is chump change. This is what you call corruption, plain and simple, It is sad really. So do I feel sorry for him because he was jailed for non compliance with his job searches or when his tax refund is snatched (when he finally did get a job) and given to me to satisfy his arrears? They are not killing their cash cows. Tags:alienation, Divorce laws, finances, income, Parental rights, unemployment. Now there are some women who see and have commented on gender bias against men and boys. So father pay your child support but what is of more important spending quality time with them. Thanks. What world are you living in? This scam employs many people. I have always provided for my son always will. This is killing me cause Im thinking how could she do something like that since we havent been happy together for such a long time. Organizations? 100% agree! New laws need to be passed in child support. These are the reasons why I am pro-child support and pro-child support enforcement. Lisa although I understand from your perspective you share about single mothers. There isnt time or space to get started on the unintended consequences of the Bradley Amendment (42 US Code 666 somehow appropriate) but it desperately needs to be rewritten or repealed. Its like she still wants to receive more just because he makes more money. Id get thrown in jail for not paying her the CS but she has absolutely zero accountability to spend it on them or help support them in any way. Not every divorce is by mutual choice. 51% deadbeat MOM, by current Wa. You see, most opposing attorneys will run your credit score to asssess how juicy a target you are in order to get sued and your ability to pay, prior to compiling that 600 page compliant in court against you. To make it worse, my daughter, was diagnosed at the age of 10 with a brain tumor and severe brain swelling. I tried to get food stamps so I could afford groceries, but I was denied because she has a food stamp case open. Can not see his child because a court order was not put in place when his son was first born. I contacted him through his email and he assured me that in two days time my boyfriend is going to leave the other girl and come back to me and it was a very great surprise to see my boyfriend coming back to me after two days. The more child support the states collect, the more profit the state makes from the federal government for collecting child support. And my 3 are the oldest. How can I ever get ahead? If they didnt want the above, they would have listened to Karen DeCrow. While my husband works his butt off and pays over 1,224.00 a month for 2 children while the mothers are not required to work . I havent seen my daughter in over 3 years due to the fact my ex found out I was getting married and was having a child with my wife. Thats easy. So when a woman has children under the guise that she will raise them at home and not send them to a sitter while she goes to work, she will then expect the same consideration if things go south. This creates a financial incentive for states to order sole custody with the lower earning parent, and to restrict the noncustodial parents access to their children because it increases the gross amount of child support collected. Get this adjusted modified you should only be paying like 1k for 2 kids per month. Both parents income IS EXACTLY WHAT GENERATES THE AMOUNT THE COURTS DEFINE AS NECESSARY. Terrible child support formula. In 1986, CBS produced a report titled The Vanishing Family: Crisis in Black America, which featured a New Jersey father of six who bragged on camera about not supporting his children financially. That was seven years ago. So now in the rare event that he does call his kid its only to make false promises and to gloat about his trips with the new girlfriend to Las Vegas and how he just sued someone and won and got compensated for that. Yes, there are some deadbeat dads out there. Well both parents should be paying for the kids and it doesnt matter if the woman makes good money or not. Sounds like she works her butt off to give these kids a great life. Theyve received my money, and have had their parents in their lives, from day one. I thank heavens did not have to deal with the child support drama. Its supposed to cover 1/2 of childcare. the mother is so nasty that there are roaches in their house. Every guys gonna do that now. Usually the wife will file multiple cases including domestic violence (99% false), cruelty on wife (most notorious section 498a, 98% fake) that will keep husband busy for 2 yrs to get bail of his relatives and parents including minors like nephews which are been named by the wife in complaint without any proof. That is just another weapon that women use to be unequal again. Half of the amount that Mr V is paying would be more than enough to support a great quality of life for his children. Especially in our justice system that preaches equal rights. Things dont always go the way we want them to. They laughed at me and made me out to be a kept woman. Its interesting that when a fathers income increases , the judges dont have a problem with increasing their support amount . Thats what I signed up for when I had a kid. But i have a pick set in my gear so I opened the door. I am planning to meet with a lawyer in a week or so. I believe in equal rights but for every gender, race or religion. I am and always have been an active father. Not all men are deadbeats and they also charge interest on past support. I had to track it sown to get credit and when I did they didnt refund my 9000 of being over paid they just kept taking and I was quite a bit ahead. You cant control him anyways. 25% means you have more than one child with that person because its only 20% if you have one child. Our automated calculations take into account taxes(if youre not working cash), and visitation time. Child Support laws are outdated and need to change. If the custodial parent cant be bothered to document and substantiate actual costs then they should get either nothing or 50% of a basic formula for what the average costs of a childs educational and healthcare are for whatever age. Way to go legal system. Make sure anything she says can and will be used against her in the court of law. Ive had CSS employees tell me that its a horrible situation, and they feel badbut give me little advice. Its unbelievable. I told him i was fighting the injustice and that my income numbers had been falsified, that i could not work because of this trauma, and that i currently stayed home with our 2 7 year olds while my bf worked. When you lose your job or get demoted you put in for modification and that modification is granted based on what you currently make. At that, the interest money goes to the ex spouse, as well. Most normal people dont make more than 75k at a typical job. You need to appeal the decision The problem is that all of us good fathers, as evident by the comments on this site, are lapped together with all the real deadbeats out there. Im still a low income father with huge back payments. Im a good father. You will then find that the state is the real and true DEADBEAT! Not to mention she has a college education and substitute teaching certificate I work construction so my hours dont reflect yearly pay. Gentlemen, here are some tips-1) Get an attorney whenever dealing with child support. Ive moved my son back and forth to college (3 hrs away) and not one time has his father offered to move him or assist. But the current laws assuming just because you made 25.00 and do not have that income anymore and make less should not be held against you. If my ex needs extra help with the kiddos during the week too, I help out. The relief i have felt from bankruptcy? An get mad if she loses her job. Being an advocate for family law reform, I can assure you that there are 10s of thousands of guys who would agree with him. If he paid 50% of the actual expenses for the boys, his child support obligation would be $1084.13 per month. To go to court to fight custody is another half. Reducing and, in some cases, forgiving arrears. This shoehorns men and women into sexist roles, with men forced to be the breadwinner. Rose you really are making it sounds so like you created the child alone. I dont thin there is any easy way to solve this problem. Hopefully in time it does :(. Push for changeSo how do Dads organize to make this a possible topic of political elections? Just type in US Department of Justice 9 page memo March 14 2016 in the search. We are being unfairly treated.. Im a contractor and had my exs lawyer trying to use my wages before deductions for the child support calculation As in before all the materials,fuel, and subcontractors I had paid out of it for the year. In his opinion i was not letting him see the kids. If some one has to pay 25k per month the mother or father (regardless of earnings) either has to allow the child to live with the wealthier parent, request less money thats within her budget, or match the amount. To the government this is a net zero impact. It should be equal on both parties and the same across the board no matter the income. The fifth time he served a six-month jail sentence, which caused his past due child support to grow to over $5,700. Her dad is not allowed to come to my house, though. However if the fathers income gets reduced , there is nothing in place to take that into consideration . It was on this faithful day, i came across some comments on a website about this great Helper called Robinson.buckler , so many persons claimed that he help them to renew their relationship and bring their ex back, i had to contact him because he was my last hope. I got the full scene on video and got it online for divorce proof later on. I hope you both can work out your situations so your children dont end up paying the price. I work hard to sustain my lifestyle and to take care of my child. Time matters not Money. two people same problem one child them to me it becomes a two people payment problem not just one side. try again. 4. When he called child support this week and essentially asked them to reconsider and/or issue a temporary license due to his situation they told him flat out that there was nothing they can do and he still owes regular payments even without having a source of income. title IV-D of the social security act sad sad day. Insofar as the childrens rights? Notice IM NOT COMPLAINING ABOUT MY CHILDREN whom I nursed and sang to as infants etcI loved being a mom and business woman and soldier. Lets do more to fight this injustice. And I can see when the child support check is cashed off my bank statements Each month its cashed a weekend I have my girls And the next week when I get my girls back They didnt do anything but sit on their tablets and didnt get snacks like they do with me (fruits and vegetables) but their mother does have a brand new car, The problem is no one wants to advocate for the fathers. And make sure you request a jury at the hearing its your constitutional right. I work for the CS system in CA. How do we change it? The judge took her word for it. Judges dont get to know every case there are just to many and to them its only a job and they could care less if you are struggling due to an idoit you were once involved with,you are only a paycheck to judges and lawyers and they sure dont give a crap about the child. I thank God for the CS system, because without it my ex would not voluntarily give me one red cent for the support of our 2 boys. While a minor is taking care of another minor home alone at night.. The mother of the child filed for child support with false information and with no time sharing agreement in place, my bf got screwed. Family court and the laws r a joke and unfair. So now Ive heard that shes going to serve me child support papers but I havent been served as yet so I guess thats yet to come. Attorney services are provided by licensed attorneys in every state where Cordell & Cordell offices are located. You might be going through a hard time, but that doesnt mean the responsibility of the children doesnt exist. Why I need answers because its ridiculous that he now will have to pay more than $500 a month. Child support is about the child not a flawed or failed relationship. 3)Again. They had to include the child support he paid as part of his income. My ex was behind 26k, got emergency ex parte custody, and ultimately sole custody after getting a default judgement when he did not notify me of custody hearing, and used completely fabricated income ammounts, causing me to lose my house, the only home my 5 year old had ever known at the time, my job, and very worst I lost any relationship that I had with my girls, he got discretion on visitation , and the man has not allowed us to see them at all, these people are criminals with records, and I was a mail carrier. She did not work the first 7 years which was no complaint since she was home with our child. If child support didnt exist then the parent that wanted to be there for the kid would be. As a woman, I am personally sick of certain women( not all) taking good honest men for all their worth just because these men had had children with them. Oh, The Horror. Thats all we are; a figure to be bought and sold. Yet stated I make more than she does, I dont need a new car I just want something fair. Their mother made every situation so impossible, add drinking a prescription pills into the mix, then a court system that always gives the mom the upper hand even with criminal convictions and documented suicidal tendencies, there is no analysis of the entire situation or consideration for the good of the children beyond the support dollars.
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